Two voices instead of one
Before, the couple answered together and the louder voice quietly won. Now each person chooses on their own, and only then do you look together.
Nothing becomes shared by itself
One person's choice does not turn into a family value until the other explicitly confirms it.
A shorter required path
Family stories, the 15 questions and the six-field mission are no longer part of the required path. They stay available as extra material.
One practice instead of a list of intentions
From the actions you already wrote down you choose one, give it a rhythm and a date, and come back to see whether it worked.
The right not to agree
An open question can be saved separately — or not saved at all. Agreement is not a condition of finishing.